The present post is for all those girls who complain that we are not considered as daughters in in-laws' houses or not getting equal respect, love, and affection.
First, it is important to know that when you were a daughter, what was your role in your house. Hardly you were supportive of yourself and your family with some household activities.
Now tell me that if your mother also thinks that I will also live like a daughter in the in-law's house, then maybe you do not get this comfort, before marriage you are the responsibility of the parents, so they ignore your mistakes, after marriage, if you also have responsibility like your mother, then you will also have to do what mother used to do in your house.
Now tell me if you come late, your sister-in-law sleeps for a long time if your mother works in the kitchen, will you praise that sister-in-law? You will never tell your mother why do you cry in the kitchen, let your sister-in-law do it, who is such a girl? Is it the one who tells sister-in-law that you take a lot of rest sister-in-law, the mother will do everything??
Now one thing that if she says that we will do only for mother-in-law's husband and our children, it does not mean others, brother-in-law sister-in-law...
And if not yours, will you or your parents have to bear it, not at all... so if your sister-in-law does what you want with you, then you should not feel bad. Also, think that your sister-in-law will also not be happy with your arrival.
Have you ever thought that you have made your mother feel like a queen at home?? If not, how do you expect yourself to feel? Did mother ever complain that I had to get up early, and work, maybe never, she used to cook food for you people even if I had a headache, fever, or any illness?
Every place has its own importance and has different roles and responsibilities. That's why give importance to both. Girls who understand and behave accordingly are worthy of praise.
best regards